Being back to school really kind of shakes me up, nearly being 14 I’m still working out what to do with my life and I’m not quite sure. But I don’t know about you but school is a difficult time at the moment, I thought of some topics and I’m going to talk them through.
1. Bullies
Okay so bullies are quite a big thing at my school, I’m not going to go through saying what a bully is because you all know that, I used to be bullied when I was younger for the stupid topic of my surname, it was rude and people found it funny. I’m just going to put out there, I can’t change my surname yet and I’m stuck with the one I have, so those stupid idiots that thought it was cool to make my life hell at the age of 10. Well it isn’t!!! This only carried on for about 2 weeks which I’m lucky I had the guts to tell a teacher I trusted what was happening, and if any of you are or have been bullied just talk. Talk is easier than you think it is. Once those bullies realise how stupid they’ve been they will stop. (Most of the time)
Some form of bullying consists of the bully being jealous of the victim, they obviously have better friends, maybe more money and smarter. Some of those boys and sometimes girls that hang around the fields and playgrounds all day skipping class, mouthing off to teachers and not doing anything with there life are the types (in my experience) are the ones that go down the bullying route. They are simply jealous that your doing so well and there not. Just either talk to that person and tell them how your feeling or talk to a parent or teacher! See, all the resolutions involve talking! 🙂
2. Self Harm
Okay, so i don’t know about your school/collage but in mine there are a lot of self conscious girls that find the need to hurt themselves. A lot of my friends are self harming and it’s really hard to watch them suffer.
I wish there was more I could do for them, but they make it difficult for me to get to them. I don’t know if any of you have or know anyone that does self harm but if you do and they need some help don’t hesitate to get them the help they need, because one of my friends needed help and I had to choose whether I wanted to see them suffer or tell there parents and them get better even though she was mad at me for quite some time. A lot of girls are insecure about there weight and if I had a wish it would be for all girls to stop thinking there fat and be happy with there bodies.
3. Boys
So this is a topic that I’m no good at, boys confuse me so much I can’t even explain. There body language is so confusing and when they take and hour to reply to a text, say hey then don’t reply again, they don’t realise how annoying it is. There is a certain boy that I have liked for a while now, he has noticed me and we flirt and talk a lot but he never seems to be interested. I don’t know whether to make a move or not. It’s kinda hard to know what a boy is thinking whereas you can read girls like books. If you have any tips on how to get a boy to be interested or anything I’d love to hear them.
So that was my intake on back to school, it was short and sweet as all my blogs are but its a little something so you can get to know me a bit more. I do have a YouTube channel where I do talking videos like these blogs. So do go and check that out.
I’m sure your wondering a bit why I started this when I don’t have one topic just to talk about? Well because I’d been hurting recently if you’ve read my blog you would know, and I just thought I could get a bit of advice, give a bit of advice and just write everything down where I can still see it without having to hide it from my friends and family. I will write again tomorrow
Scared dancer x